Thursday, December 20, 2012

Annoying Anonymous

So I have approved one comment by an anonymous yesterday.


I don't know if the person misinterpreted my entry Going Strong, Insha Allah with these words

"Gaduh, masam muka, nangis, merajuk, cabar-mencabar tu semua asam garam rumahtangga. Saya ni memang mulut jenis lazer, sedang dalam proses mengurangkan tahap 'habanero' ke 'jalapeno' dan seterusnya ke tahap 'cili merah'. Lama tu. Ni tengah demam memang tak larat nak melenting, tapi moody la hehehe..."


Ada saya cakap saya bangga ke? And why mention "wanita kena bertegas dan lembut dalam masa yang sama"? I did write that I am in the process of temper-controlling but then the person cakap saya bangga. Orang yang saya tau bangga kalau laser sorang je : Azwan Ali. 

Come on Anon, jangan malukan other Anons dengan comments like this. People blog because they need to express themselves - in a positive way - rather than beat up people who harass/annoy them . If you don't like what you see, ignore, unfriend and make a mental-note that you are not going to be like others. If you feel you're better than others, show some respect by introducing yourself or at least private message me.

And, some people just do not understand being sarcastic or rhetoric is all about. 

I hate when people say women should be polite and stern at the same time - even being treated harshly. I'm no female-chauvinist but women should have their own stands in living their lives ok. When all is not working, then women should be harsh - that's what happened. If you out there feel that seeing me and reading my entries makes you itch and feel icky, please do not read my blog or befriend me on Facebook. I could be a negative impact on your life, sooner or later - due to your way of conveying message to people is plain annoying.

Thanks for reminding me that I should do a spring clean on my friends list.

Baling batu sembunyi tangan

9 comments:

bibi yusof said...

niha... i really hate anon....
sbb my blog is personal.. bukan blog cam blog blog glamer lain yg mmg tulis untuk capture other's attention.. so please la dont give this crap to us kan...

and when we know that anon is our friend lagi la sakit hati.. because she has no guts to tell us face to face...

nihadriz said...

bibi : if you read the comment by that anon, how would you feel?

memang annoying. ada je anons yang comment but most are ok. bila came across people like this, totally ruin my mood to be nice. tak suka takpela kan. why nak read on lagi kan?

perhaps carik modal nak label people itu ini :P

Nurul said...

Hai adik mulut laser!
haha.

he/she loves you / your blog. that's why he/she keep coming and keep reading your posts & your FB wall.

just keep on writing.

- Anon.

nihadriz said...

kak nurul : thanx for being 'anon' (even though nampak nama 'Nurul' kat tu hehe)

positively i think that way but kalau dia tengah carik point to slap me back in the face in the future, taktaulah kan :P

Azlina Wahab said...

Dr Fadzilah Kamsah kata org yg menggunakan 'Anon' atau apa jua nama samaran adalah org yg xde self esteem... mungkin 'Anon' tersebut juga mempunyai masalah tersebut tanpa disedari, kerana secara tidak sedar dia sebenarnya tidak bersedia utk dikritik, hanya mampu mengkritik sahaja... keep on blogging dear, we should agree to disagree, but not to condemn others... that's the beauty of blogging, kan?

nihadriz said...

Kak zila : Thank you for being positive heheh... yes blogging to me is connecting with others through writing, in a good way :)

marmalade said...

i dislike anons.
i even put up a caption on my comment box "be nice. introduce yourself."

i trusted my readers, to a point i gave them a choice by being "anonymous" but you still can put your chosen name. for me, anonymous can only be used when you created a genius and inspirational quotes - in this perspective, being anonymous is all about being humble. you do something good but you do not want people to know that you do something good. geddit?

but when bad comments started to appear on the blog using anonymous, i decided that, "that's it! everybody has to log in to provide comments. zero tolerance on cowards!"

but let's take the high road niha. this person probably do not know how to use the comment box and fail to realise that you CAN actually provide a name without logging in. let's give this person the benefit of the doubt, shall we?

also, i KNOW you. when i read that entry, i didn't think you were being proud or anything. you were just ranting on.

Resm A. said...

been there done that...you knew the story behind the separate travelling blog of mine rite...hehehe...biasa la hajjah...human will always be human...hehehe...sekarang ni rambut pon dah tak sama hitam...hati lagi ler lain lain...hahaha...

nihadriz said...

Kak mala : couldn't agree more. Tu la. Orang rant on fb ramai serabut. Rant in the blog pun orang serabut jugak. Do lepas ni nak kena berkata2 dlm hati jela kot. Huhu...

Mal : aku teringat ayat2 "muka lopak" tiba2 hehe...