2 Months!!??

Salam all.

Ok. Lama gila tak blogging, Almost forgot that I have one.

Quick update:

1. Ahmad now dah furniture-walking hahaha... next week 8 months old yo! Alhamdulillah.
2. My kids are now menumpang di rumah bff ku Fara. *sedih* Kes kematian baby Imna Khalisa di taska adalah menggemparkan. Dah sebulan taska tutup.
3. Amna telah mencederakan Fahad! Why Amna whyyyyyy??? Berdarah dahi Fahad semalam. Feisty sungguh anak daraku ini. Puas my husband n I mintak maaf kat Fara and Medcham sebab dahla tumpang bibik Fara, anakku mengganas pulakkkk T___T
4. This month will be our 4th anniversary on the 20th! Ceriakan harimu dengan gaduh-gaduh over small matters. LOL.
5. Anak-anak susuan dah 3 orang. Wahhhh ramaiiiiii dan semuanya lelaki heheheheheeeee
6. Wraps dah bertambah. But that is another story k?
7. Enrolled Amna to play school bangunan sebelah ni je (KeTTHA). Sonang. Petang-petang boleh angkut balik terus yeayyyyy...

Until then. :)

Whatttttt...?

Nursery yang Amna pergi sekarang ni kerap jugak bertukar nannies. Kadang-kadang bertanya jugak nanny dulu pegi mana, nanny yang baru-baru ni cakap owhhh yang tu balik kampung. So kita pun senyum jelah. Nak tanya banyak kang kata menyibuk sebab jawapan tu macam memang tak nak suruh tanya lebih-lebih.

Nak jadi cerita, hari ni sibuk carik alamat taska Amna tu sebab nak buat surat sikit kat owner regarding nak hantar Baby A kat situ. Tiba-tiba ternampak tajuk "Taska Puaka". Bila click kat situ, terjawablah sudahhhhhh kenapa Ain dah tak kerja kat situ lagi. Huhuhuhhuhu seriauuuu... Dahla baru dikejutkan yang anak staff meninggal kat taska. Umur baru 4 bulan. Walawehhhhhh kenapakahhhhhhhh...

Seram dibuatnya. Yelah, anak kita kalau jadi apa-apa kan memang siang malam tak senang duduk. Anak demam pun dah susah hati, ini pulak anak diapa-apakan kat nursery. But Amna seems ok je kalau pergi kat situ, takdelah nangis ke apa ke. Tau-tau menonong je kejar Cikgu Siti dia tu. Sampai nannies kat situ cakap Amna tu anak angkat Cikgu Siti. 

Hopefully ok lah kan sebab nak carik nursery yang bagus sekarang ni memang susah, tambahan pulak fees untuk nursery kemain mahal Jemah oiiii... Imagine pendaftaran certain nurseries je dah RM1700 and monthly fee would be around RM600. Kalau anak dua dah RM1200. Botak kepala nak bayar nursery fees je kat situ. Tu belum masuk makan pakai anak lagi, education fund lagi. 

Rasa nak consider daily maid yang RM900 tu je huhuhuhuhu... Ya Allah lindungilah anak-anakku...

Kisah Taska / Nursery 3 - Anxious Parents

Alkisah semalam first day Amna at the nursery. Ibu macam tahan je tak nak call the nanny but then the father pulakkk call tanya Amna ok ke tak. What I worry most is actually whether she drinks the milk or jenis tahan je lapar sampai balik.. 

Masa nak hantar tu tanya cikgu (muda lagi dalam 19-21 kot) pernah handle EBM tak. Dia cakap boleh. So saya pun confident jelahhh kan sebab owner cakap ada warmer lagi. Fine. Pastu siap tinggalkan manual written in red ink so that nannies baca how to handle EBM.  I texted the nanny around lunch hour asking about Amna and she said Amna drank just fine, siap cakap tak cukup. I sent 2oz x 4 bottles, by the time I called after lunch hour, only 1 bottle left. Nasib baik ada backup one 3oz frozen EBM and the other one 4oz, also frozen EBM. Meaning Amna needs 5 bottles per day. So I called her up...

Me : Amna minum tak? Susu cukup?

Nanny : Amna minum tapi tinggal satu bottle je lagi.

Me : Berapa bottle dia minum?

Nanny : 3. Tinggal 1 je lagi.

Me : Susu beku dalam plastik tu tak guna?

Nanny : Owh? Ingatkan apa tadi dalam plastik...

Me : Tu susu beku, nanti dah cair, masukkan dalam botol lepas tu panaskan macam biasa ye?.

Nanny : Ok kak.

After ending the conversation, I texted the nanny "Minah (bukan nama sebenar), make sure panaskan guna warmer or air suam, bukan air panas, takut susu rosak. If Amna tak habis lepas 1 jam, buang je susu yang dah panas tu. Thanks :)". Tapi hati tak tenang jugak sebab tak pasti how they thawed the frozen milk or who knows if they refrigerate back thawed milk into the freezer?

Harini hantar 3oz x 5 bottles plus 4oz frozen EBM.Dalam hati dah nekad nak buat illustrated manual how to handle EBM. Jap lagi melukis lagi hehehe... Will update with the sketch :P

Kisah Taska / Nursery 2

Hah. Akhernyaaaa ai masuk keje uollsss... Tadi Amna got her 3-month checkup and jab. Beriklut adalah keputusannya :

Weight : 6.25kg
Length : 63 cm

Sihat anak ibu hehehee... And, I brought her to work, worrying that she might be crying all day long due to the jab pain. Ni baru je tido. Siap dah meraung satu ofis boleh dengar kotttt... Kesian, mesti peha dia sakit tu huhuhu...

I was suppose to attend  3-day course in Nilai. but then, it was postponed until further notice. Lega hati makkkk... Kelam kabut carik nanny and all. Siap dah sediakan everything for Amna's needs, EBM etc.

Hm, satu lagi update. I already got a nursery, but it is still not registered with JKM. But then dalam sebulan dua ni will do until we could find a better nursery where I could go and visit her or do a spot check. We went to see the owner on Saturday and the fee is RM300 per month, including RM50 for annual activities. So, this month have to pay RM650, because usually the next month's fee has to be paid upfront. If the child attends 10 days and less, the fee is half of the monthly fee. Bolehlaaaa... Zaimee yang suggest sebab pernah hantar Naimee kat situ for 3 months. Not bad katanya. Memangla ngam sebab Kak Ani tu orang Kelantan kottt... Satu negeri dengan Zaimee. Hahahah...

So semalam masa tengah siapkan barang-barang nak keje (masa tu taktau lagi yang kursus kena postponed), cakapla dengan husband.

"Abang perasan tak tilam kat nursery tu hitam? Geli la. Ntah sape-sape je duduk situ"

"Ala... sayang perasan sebab abang bagitau kannnn."

"Eh, mana ada, saya tengokla... Tilam yang kat dalam kandang yang besar tu. Huhuhuhu"

"Abang ingat nak tanya 'Kak, apesal tilam, kandang tu hitam? Ke akak yang duduk dalam kandang?'".

Terbelahak laki bini gelak dalam risau. Saya pulak gelak tak berhenti membayangkan akak tu duk dalam katil baby hohoho... Gelak punya gelak, Amna tiba-tiba join gelak. Kelakar gila situasi tu. Nanti saya update gambar nursery and upload ye :D. Nasib baik Kak Ani cakap kena sediakan tilam sendiri untuk Amna, mana kami pun gigihla beli tilam dan sarung bantal kat Carrefour. So from this, I know that I have to prepare  Amna's toiletries, separate bottle sponge and washing liquid. Mana boleh campur kan. Kakak tu cakap kat nursery mandi air sejuk, 2 kali sehari. Pukul 10 and pukul 4.30 kot kalo tak silap. So, macam bimbang je Amna tak suka air sejuk, nak pesan kat kakak tu mandi pagi je, petang balik rumah kitorang Rezal (Rezal selalu akan tanya balik "Kitorang? Bukan abang je ke yang mandikan Amna petang-petang?" Cessss.) akan mandikan Amna. Mana-manalah. Since my course is postponed, maka esoklah start hantar Amna kat situ.

So, pencarian nursery/taska berdaftar masih diteruskan. Area taska Amna tu, ada CIC, BondaMama, a few others, tapi SEMUA TAK BERDAFTAR dengan JKM. Bayang tak CIC yang berlambak cawangan tu tak berdaftar dengan JKM? Syllabus pun tak berdaftar dengan KPM. Tu yang kawan saya ada file lawsuit against CIC. At first diorang nak bukak cawangan CIC kat Shah Alam, then pegi apply kat persyarikatan ke apentah.. Kena refer KPM lah, JKM lah, found out that CIC tak berdaftar pun. Bila my friend ni pergi CIC kat P9, mintak tunjuk certificate, puan tu bagi, only to find that tarikh luput dah lepas dalam setahun lebih. Pastu puan tu BARU PERASAN. Kes saman ni bukan apa, ada certain things yang CIC tak boleh nak settle, termasuklah modal yang telah dikeluarkan oleh my friend tu sebab nak bukak franchise. Parah kan?

Ok lah, saje nak update sebab hari ni first day keje lepas 3 months maternity leave. Owh, baju jugak banyak dah ketat. Kena kuruskan badan ni! Dah beli lecithin dengan Fara heheheheh..

Macam nak menulis pasal exprience check up kat Klinik Kesihatan Presint 11 tadi, but that's another story lah ye. Bengang pun ada. Until then :D

Kisah Taska / Nursery

Masih lagi mencari taska untuk Amna. Padahal nak start kerja next week dah! Panic attack! How am I suppose to search a nursery in a short time? I have called almost every nursery in Putrajaya and as expected, there is no vacancy for 3-month-old babies. It's difficult because for babies, they limit up to 15 babies only. Does this mean I have to bring Amna along to work?

Owh, the reason of all the chaos was BPH has stricken the policy of certified babysitters, or they may have to evacuate the quarters. Much to my dismay, the nurseries available around here are very limited and over-crowded as almost everyone need to send their kids. Those who have maids, they have other things to worry about, at least not this.

I, myself, made a promise that I am not going to hire bibiks prior to what I have seen before. When I was pregnant, I tend to go to work a bit late from my usual routine, which means I arrived at the office just in the nick of time before the punch card turns red. On the way to work, I saw a few bibiks held this kind of meeting at the playground near our house. To my observe, it is very shocking that a few bibiks brought along babies or toddlers! From afar I could see this one bibik pushing a stoller with a baby inside, just to meet her friends at the playground. 

There's still time. And I will do my best for Amna. Haih. Meroyan la ibu macam ni. Dah ada pengasuh, elok pulakkkkk BPH impose strict law. Yela, dah banyak cases babies mati tersedak susu, jatuh, kena dera, happened at non-certified nurseries. Ahem, even some happened at the certified ones. Menangis babysitter-to-be Amna tu mengenangkan 'anak-anak' dia takde. Budak-budak tu siap panggil Kak Mas tu 'ibu'.

Serabutnya minggu ni. Sesiapa tau taska yang ok sila lahhhh sangat bantu saya ni. Tak keruan jadinya. Benci tau bila buat tak staggerd macam ni. 

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