Hey guys, I wonder if you have ever confronted a situation where your girlfriend demands more than you can give/afford? For instance, you went for a business trip to somewhere-out-of-the-country, and you have no idea what to buy for your girlfriend because the country doesn't offer much. Instead, you sent thoughtful postcards to her and some of your friends. Her comment? "Is that all? Everyone gets a postcard too. I want something more special, at least". How would that make you feel?
Your opinion? Should you get your girl friends / boy friends / special ones something that is hard-to-find-in-that-country or if your were in her shoes, you just simply be grateful for the postcard you received? Owh, and you don't have THAT much money.
7 comments:
kalau ko tanya aku kan ha...silap besar arrr pompuan tu...terus kukatakan BYE BYE...
aku pernah confronted with the situation before...tapi bukan la poskad...it was last year...i gotten her something from europe...dont want to mention what it was (but not fridge magnet, key chains la)...then she said...
~ini aje ker? u pergi jejauh ini ajer yang you nampak ker?~
after 10 seconds...
aku cakap...
yeah
thats all
assalamualaikum...
dah aku blah
p.s:aku rasa aku pernah citer ler kat ko last year pasal benda nieh...
ye, i'm aware of that. haihhhh...macam2 orang kat kat dunia ni. kalo yg spouse tu kaya takpe jugak. kalo yg keje gomen mcm kita ni? dapat pulak yg jenis demand itu ini. mesti tergolek punya.
Niha,
Org keje gomen bukan kaya ke? kiri kanan atas bawah dpt elaun...
perempuan mcm tu belum kawin pun dah susah bofren nak entertain, lg lps kawin. bo layan maa...
Wanita begini sangat high expectation dia or dia selalu compare dengan boyfriend orang lain kot?
Dah cukup memadai if bf ingat untuk beli souvenir n lebih best kalau souvenir yang die beli tu ada reason tertentu yang sweet2 kenapa die beli tu untuk gf dia. Tu lebih thoughtful
kak ti : org gomen la paling tak kaya sekali dalam ramai2. plus, keberhutangan serious kebanyakannya terdiri daripada penjawat awam.
yaya : ye...lebih thoughtful. tp dalam ini cerita, dia punnnn dapat postcard, sama je mcm kwn2 bf dia yg lain. maybe she wanted something different. agak sedikit sengal bf dia tu (yela apesal tak beli je mangkuk jamban kat sana utk bagi kat gf ke - on being different *yes, i'm being sarcastic*). tp memandangkan bf dia tu tengah sesak n went there on business trip, bukan berhoyeah-hoyeah)somehow aku rasa pompuan tu agak annoying.
kalo aku la dapat postcard, aku ok je. yela, sape rajin nak pegi beli postcard and post etc, in a foreign country. pejabat pos kat alamanda punnn aku malas nak pegi.
maybe some girls out there would label the guy as "insensitive" to what the girl wants. ntah. aku jd fed up bab2 showering people dgn luxurious things ni. sbb aku ni miskin. branded item takde melainkan wallet bally yg pesan kat akmal dulu tu. huhuhuuuu~
I will appreciate his effort for sending the post card and at least he thought of me. this girl doesn't have any manners! biaq piii laa.
zet : well, some people demand more. hard to say. benda macam ni punnnn boleh jadi gaduh. it is s small matter for a person like me. if my fiancé didn't get me anything, it's ok. as long as he came back safely. if he got something for me, it's a bonus. sometimes, tiny little things like emails and text messages are sweet. not necessarily material. it's the thought that counts. but some people just don't get it. huhuuu~
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